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Not Ready To Play Nice

I was watching the VH1 Top 20 countdown yesterday morning and a new video came on from the Dixie Chicks. I don’t really consider myself to be a country music fan, but this video caught my attention and I decided to follow-up by finding out the background story online. The video was for the song “Not Ready to Make Nice” and it is the Dixie Chicks first single since they received all the attention about some comments made against President Bush. Now I admit that I was already in a bad mood, but I was just so angry about the sad state of our DEMOCRACY that years afterward people are still harassing these women. Let’s put this in perspective:

The Crime: At a concert in Europe The Dixie Chicks said that they were ashamed that the President was from Texas

The Backlash: Death threats, banning of their music from radio stations, public demonstrations against the group

These days a lot of celebrities have been using their fame and media attention to voice their opinions. As a comparison we can look at Tom Cruise’s comments against psychiatry.

The Crime: In repeated interviews, including the Today Show and Access Hollywood Tom Cruise bashed people with mental illnesses who take medications, specifically Brooke Shields, and said that they could get off the drugs and just take vitamins for the same effects

The Backlash: Brooke Shields and the mental health community said that his comments were “dangerous and irresponsible”, but it was acknowledged that he was allowed to have an opinion

Comparing these 2 cases illustrates a couple points. First, The Dixie Chicks made public comments on ONE occasion to a much smaller audience. Second, they criticized an ELECTED OFFICIAL, someone who CHOSE to be in that position, and someone who should have EXPECTED criticism as we live in a DEMOCRACY where citizens are not only entitled to their opinions, but also are EXPECTED TO FORM THEM AS PART OF THEIR ROLE AS A CITIZEN. And honestly poking fun at the President seems far less of a crime to me than taking cheap shots at thousands of mentally ill who had no part in choosing their fate. (Tom Cruise might still feel the wrath from this, just wait for the first lawsuit from the family of a suicide victim who failed at the vitamin approach.) Furthermore, whether you agree with what either Tom Cruise or The Dixie Chicks had to say, you should remember that freedom of speech is part of America and if being a patriot means embodying American ideals it means being OK with people speaking their minds. I seem to remember something in history class about us fighting a war to have the right to criticize our leaders. I’m sure our forefathers could not have foreseen the power of today’s media or the influence carried by today’s celebrities, but I can’t imagine that if they had known they would have written a clause in the Constitution to keep just Natalie Maines quiet. They probably were hoping that the American people would be responsible enough to question not only their elected officials, but also their sources for information and realize that Tom Cruise is not a licensed health professional and the Dixie Chicks are not economists, military experts, or political strategists.

So overall I’m proud of the Dixie Chicks. I’m glad that they are “not ready to make nice”, and I think they’re better patriots for it. Maybe they can remind some people that we can better love our country, our government, and our president because we have the right to hate them.

“To Boldly Go”

For the past few years I have been following a GLBT rights group, The Human Rights Campaign, and I recently read an interview they had with former Star Trek cast member George Takei (interestingly he has also been named as Howard Stern’s new side-kick). I thought the interview was interesting, especially in the viewpoint that Takei has about GLBT rights. Takei, as a Japanese American, spent part of his childhood in an internment camp during World War II. To him, the denial of rights (such as the right to marry) for members of the GLBT community is similar to the denial of rights to those Japanese Americans who were in internment camps. He specifically used the phrase “invisible barbed wires of legality” to describe how GLBT Americans are being treated as second-class citizens, a view not different from my own. Sean and I just got married in July and I know how happy that has made me, and how happy we were to be able to show our friends and family how happy we were together in a publicly recognized ceremony. I can’t imagine anyone telling me that I would never have that opportunity.

NFL Championships and weekend

So, I’ve been watching the championship games today and I’m not sure how I feel about the Steelers win. I really wanted the Bengals to go to the Superbowl, and I was not pleased to see the lack of sportsmanship shown by the Steelers in that game, so I have been rooting against them throughout the playoffs. That said, I saw Big Ben play college ball when Miami of Ohio played Bowling Green a couple of years ago, and he is a good QB (plus having a MAC QB go to the Superbowl will be good for the conference). I’m hoping that Seattle pulls their game out - I had Hasselback and Alexander on my fantasy team and it’s nice to see players at the top of their game.

Other fun stuff this weekend - Friday we went over to Andy F’ s place for Sci-Fi Friday, Sat. I played my first game of Stratego (and beat Sean), and today I found out that Jenny’s guy (Irish Andy) might come to BG, so my plan for taking over my former apartment complex with my associates might be realized! So far my second cousin, Lisa, my labmate Thomas, and Andy F. have moved in to my former building, but I still have a few apartments to go. In other weird connecting news, Danielle and John were off to Buffalo today for Danielle’s internship interview at the Veteran’s hospital.




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